You’re Hurting the Ones You Love: The Greatest Advice for Excuses

You’re Hurting the Ones You Love: The Greatest Advice for Excuses

The greatest advice that I can give any of you on how you can inspire people to get rid of their excuses and start taking accountability is to have the conversation with them by directly addressing whatever it is that they’re blaming. Like I’ve said 100 times and will continue to say, if anyone that looks like you has ever made it, then you can too.

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36 Thoughts to “You’re Hurting the Ones You Love: The Greatest Advice for Excuses”

  1. This video spoke to me on so many different levels.. thank you

  2. Makes perfect sense. Own your scars and keeping it moving. No excuses just progression!

  3. I was convicted of a felony because of something that wasn't my fault but I still took responsibility for, and because of that, I now have severe struggles with saying anything is my fault or taking responsibility for anything, just because I'm terrified that I'll wind up back in jail if I as so much as say "I'm sorry" to someone.

  4. Oh…"just deal with it"…and "it's how it is". Accepting all this is BS! When I hear people say stuff like that I feel sad. We are all connected and capable of SO much more than we know. Connect, share, smile, laugh, love….and be the best person you can be. To Hell with the haters! Thank you for sharing yet another awesome message with the world! 1❤

  5. I get what he's saying but blaming your self can have a dark side if done too much. There should be a way in between.

  6. One thing you Gary Vee fans don't realize is that he is a spammer. He advertises all sorts of useless overpriced crap. Normally people hate spammers, but Gary keeps telling everyone that if they keep working hard, then they can also become rich spammers like him. This is of course a terrible advice for most people, but it's a good excuse for the dirty work he does and as a result gets him even more attention and money. I'll give him that. He is really good at milking naive suckers on internet who think that they will be successful if they just keep spamming internet with their useless crap. And of course Gary doesn't give a fuck what happens to stupid kids following him. He treats you all like girls. Tells you he loves you, then fucks you hard.

  7. Having the actual conversation with them each day #60secclub

  8. It's good Gary that you finally admitted that my problems are all your fault. Now fix it fuckface. It's your fucking responsibility.

  9. Great one! I would really like to hear your thoughts about personal relationships, friendships, personal wellness and life beyond business

  10. Can i get your hoodie to stay motivated

  11. Your answer left me speechless. Great answer man

  12. It's that simple! Just go and tell it to them directly about their shortcomings and mistakes that you clearly know that they're doing wrong because that is love. This shows how you care for their well being.

  13. Been following you for about a year, love the consistency of your message!!

  14. Excuses are what separate the "Going to's" from the "dids"

  15. don't (bleep) sensor your (bleep) videos. (bleep).

  16. Thank you Gary. I want to be the female version of you one day.

  17. LOVE THIS – by running away from short term conflicts we are allowing them to fail long term – it's just selfish. Thanks gary vee perfect timing

  18. DLC

    So much truth right here. It's truly about taking 💯% ownership and responsibility. Being honest with yourself and everyone around you 👍

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  21. this is one is pure awesome!

  22. Dude sounds like he’s losing his voice. Must be on the road grinding hard. Take care of that voice of reason, Gary.💯

  23. Word is that Gary is coming to Singapore 13 – 14 of July. Wish I could make it!

  24. I love that he made this video family friendly. At least the short ones, because we love to hear the F word from Gary, lol.

  25. Learning a lot from you GaryVee.

  26. Actions speak louder than words. nod

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